Please mamas and papas in the house, I need advice on how to handle this. I caught my husband in an emotional affair with our neighbor I say emotional because I have not really caught them in the act but their actions suggests it. I wasn't able to access all their communication but I found some texts and emails that confirmed my suspicions. My husband now said that he has ended it but we still see the neighbor daily and my husband has, on a couple of occasions, done some things that made me uncomfortable like sitting by her at a party, driving to another town to help her in a very minor emergency and she called my husband to help. I feel he needs to completely stay away from her but he will not. He said there is no more inappropriate communication and that should be enough for me. But my husband has all his electronic devices locked so I can't verify what he tells me. Our kids are best friends and I don't want to hurt those relationships....what do I do? Confront the neighbor? Tell her husband? Nothing.....am I making a mountain out of a molehill and being paranoid? I truly feel that my marriage is in trouble because I don't think my husband is doing what he needs to do to make me feel secure and I want their contact to end.