Hi Mamalette and Papalette in the house, please I need your candid advice. I was the one who posted sometime here that there was this guy chasing all after me since my nysc days 2011 but only decided to give him a chance sometime in May 2016. He's very calm, gentle, lovable, awesome everything and all a woman would want in a man  and he asked me to marray him of which I accepted...My problem now is two days ago, Tuesday precisely I went over to his place to spend some time with him since he isn't in the same state with me and somehow one thing led to another and it happened it was going to be our first time doing it and my very first time too what I noticed is the guy was so huge down there and  also and it hurts like crazy even though he still couldn't dully get in there I suppose because of his size, secondly in less that 3months he was already done and had released,seriously I didn't know what to expect and so the following day we got down irrespective of d pains I was feeling and same thing happened again in less than 3 minutes he was done.....please does it mean he dosent last longer or he has some sort of a problems or he's sick and needs help cos I cldnt even bring myself to talking to him abt it...pls mama's n papa's advice me we r getting married in 6months time