Mamas I'm in trouble, I don't know how I am going to get out of this, I have a married boss, he is very intelligent, very nice and good looking. I have always had a crush on him ever since I started working with him but I hid my feelings for him because i know it's not professional of me to have an affair with my boss and also because he is married, I couldn't bring myself to have an affair with another woman's husband. Before we went on Christmas break, my boss called me to his office and was talking about how dedicated i am with my job, that I am so passionate about it he wonders if my boyfriend is okay with it. So i told him I didn't have a boyfriend that I'm a workaholic. He laughed and said okay. 2 days later, he got me a gift and said 'happy holidays' I didn't read meanings to it because I didn't see it as anything. During our 1 week holiday, he called about 4 times just to wish me happy holidays and check on me. It was then i started getting worried. Since we resumed, he has asked me to lunch like 3 times and I kept saying no. He just came to me now and asked me to dinner tomorrow night, and he said no excuses because he knows I don't have a boyfriend. Please mamas, how do I respectfully decline without getting fired?