Mamas I have been used, men are really wicked, in fact if you see a man and you see a snake, please kill the man first o before you pounce on the snake. I dated my guy for 7 years and got married to him for 4 years before he told me he was no longer interested in the relationship. I dated him when I was in school, then he was already working, I was always going to his house on weekends then I moved in with him in the 4th year of our relationship together, it was when I moved in with I got to know the kind of person he really was but as at then it was too late for me to  change. I had already aborted 3 pregnancies for him, while he was dating me, he was also dating other girls. I got really angry when I found out but there was nothing I could do, I was already stuck with him. He didn't want to marry me again at some point but his entire family already knew me and accepted me as his wife and they weren't ready to accept another woman in so he had no choice than to marry me after 7 years into the relationship. After I married him, it was from one miscarriage to the other, I had 5 miscarriages in 4 years for this man, and the only thing my hubby did was go after all the fair girls in town, I went as far as toning up just to keep him but I couldn't. he later divorced me and claimed it was because I couldn't provide him with kids. Since then, I have been single again, I don't look good anymore, I look like I have 5 children already and I don't. This morning, I saw his pre-wedding pictures on Facebook, he did not only just move on, he is marrying a small girl that might not have even known any man. How can he even do that to me and that small girl. Really isn't that bad?