Good day house, please I need your on this. I am in relationship with a girl from last 5 and half years. Initial two years we were together when I was working & staying in Lagos, But from 3 years it converted into a long distance relationship as I moved to another abroad for my MBA program. I am 28 working and doing fine and she is 25 working as well as pursuing her master's. I have tried my level my best to keep this relation alive and never thought of any other girl. Nine months back I got to know that this girl got engaged to some other guy when I moved to abroad. After knowing all this I threatened her too much but she begged me, put all sorts of requests to give her another chance. Although against my will I decided to give her another chance as I loved her deeply. Now we are planning to marry but both of our parents are completely against our relationship. So, I am confused whether I shall go for court marriage but I don't want to hurt any of our parents. She has became my weakness, knowing all the consequences I am unable to leave this girl and move on. My father's health is not well being the youngest he is insisting me to get married to another girl. Today I have everything to keep this girl & our families happy as I am well settled & independent. Sometimes I blame myself why moved for MBA program in the end I am loosing everything because at that time she tried to stop me not to travel abroad and leave her alone. Please help me to come out of this trauma.