Hello mamas and papas in the house, the things I have seen as a single mom is too much. I have suffered so much so that I feel like I should stop trying sef. I met this guy 6 months ago at work, he came to pick up some items and he saw me, he tried talking to me but I ignored him. He kept trying like that till I finally gave him my number and we started talking. I told him everything about him and my son and he said he couldn't wait to meet my son and I said with time he would. He was too nice, he would buy my son gifts, come pick me out to lunch and all but I made sure I never took him to my house, I was always asking to go to his place and he was always telling me his house was in a mess that it wasn't conducive. I suspected immediately that he was hiding something so I started watching him and monitoring his every move. I searched for him on Facebook through a mutual friend of ours at the office and I discovered he was using a different name on Facebook and he was married with 3 kids. I was so angry because that was how my first husband cheated on me, he lied he was single and he impregnated another girl, I couldn't stand the betrayal so I left him but I swore that even though I was betrayed that way,, I would never do anything with a married man. So I chatted his wife up on Facebook also and told her everything, I even sent her pictures.  then he called me later ranting that I ruined his marriage that I was heartless. I sent him a text back saying, "What? Are you calling me an awful person? Nobody has ever called me that before, are you ok? I broke your marriage? What are you talking about? Whose marriage? Your wife?! Are you sure I know you? I don't date married men. Oh yeah, you, I thought you were single, i think you are probably loosing your memory and I suggest next time you better write a reminder somewhere so you don't forget you have a wife and kids at home. I called your wife so she can accompany you to a doctor's office because you may be getting early signs of Amnesia. That is what my doctor told me when I told him I met a man that forgot to mention to that he was married with kids. Oh yes, and he also said you will need serious treatment, which may have to be repeated every time you have an episode. Get well soon baby!" His wife called me this morning to thank me and she said she wants to meet with me so that we can hang out sometimes. I don't know what to tell her although I told her I would get back to her, do you think it is advisable to hang out with her?