Good day mamas and papas in the house, please I need your help on what to do because even my marriage counselors could not help me. The thing is I married late in life, I married 4 months ago at the age of 41 to a brother in my church that has never been married before, he is 3 years older than I am. We didn't court for long, we both prayed over it and all the pastors said we were okay for each other. We didn't do anything before marriage because we were both V, we have never made love with anyone before and we were willing to keep it that way till marriage. The thing now is that after marriage we found out that my husband cannot perform. It is not low sp..m count, his thing is not responding, it is not standing at all. For a while I blamed myself that maybe it is because of my age that maybe I am not attractive enough for him to rise but after reading and doing so many research, I found out there is more to it and my hubby is not willing to find help. I am 41 and I want to have kids as soon as possible before I am unable to because of my old age. I told one of the marriage counselors in church and she said as a marriage counselor, she would advise me to keep praying and seek medical help for him because she would not suggest divorce but as a friend and fellow woman, she won't wish her daughter my predicament that I should look for solution to my problem because age is not on my side. I didn't understand what she meant by this. Please house, can anyone help me explain better. What should I do