Hmm Mamas, my story is a long one o. I nearly married a confused mama's boy and his mama sef come dey use jazz. I dated this young man for 8 months and he proposed marriage to me like someone that knew what he wanted. I was so in love with him that I didn't even think it twice. I said yes and we started planning our marriage. His mother was so nice to me, she was always buying me gifts because she travels a lot, so anytime she goes like that, she brings me like a bag full of clothes and shoes. I was so happy, in my mind, i had seen my perfect match. We did our introduction ceremony and immediately after that, his mom asked us to start trying to make babies. She kept insisting on it even after I said no, that pregnancy before marriage was against my ethics. She convinced her son who later convinced me and we started trying and trying. The more we made love, the more I started to realize that something was wrong with my fiancee. Since they made pregnancy a determinant of our marriage and it seemed like I wasn't going to get pregnant anytime soon, I went to my MIL whom I took like a mother, I confided in her and told her that my husband to be cannot perform in bed that his sperm was too watery and that he doesn't last long and that that might be the reason why he has not been able to impregnate me. I told her to let us look for something to do for him and she said yes, she would work on it, little did I know that I had offended her. She went to my fiancee and told him to end whatever it is we had together that me I was comparing him to the men I had been with before him that he cannot perform in bed and he can never impregnate any woman. The moment he heard this, he asked me out of his house and his life for good and that was how my marriage ended before it even started. When it happened I didn't know what I did, I was praying for my man to come back to his senses, my pastor prayed for me and told me that his mother is the one behind his inability to impregnate me and as he is he cannot impregnate any woman unless his mother dies. The pastor told me to move on with my life that my man will come. 2 years later, I met my present husband on the plane to Porthacourt, today we are married with 3 kids and that my ex is still single jumping from woman to woman and his mother is still leaving with him. I thank God for my and I keep praying for God to deliver him form the shackles he is in. I am grateful I met him because I learnt a lot from that relationship. indeed, not every bad thing that happens to one in life can be bad forever and your MIL can never be your mother so watch what you tell them