Good day mamas and papas in the house, please I need your opinion on this. There is a family friend that we went out together. I have not seen this man in years because he is based abroad, he is also married with kids. My husband accused me of cheating with him because we had dinner together and because of this, he asked that we be separated but we would still be living under the same roof. He logged into my Facebook back then and read my messages to see what I was up to. My husband tried to commit suicide after this, and the sad thing was what he wanted to kill himself over wasn't even what he thought it was because me and this guy are just friends and we have been like this long before I even met him sef.  I've now been separated (living in my own now) for a few years now and I miss having friends. Me and this guy have gotten closer ever since my separation with my husband. Is it wrong to have male friends? And when I say just friends I actually mean just friends. I don't want another husband at any point soon I'm happy being on my own but I do get lonely and wish I had people to hang out with! Adult interaction! Why is it if you have a male friend you must be sleeping together or you must like them more than a friend!? More to the point is it ok to have male friends?