Good day house, please I need serious help on this issue and I want you all to help me. I am not Nigerian, but I am married to a Nigerian man and he introduced me to this platform to help me cope with satisfying him better and understanding the Nigerian culture. My husband and I are based in the states and we are doing fine except in the bedroom. My husband is quite big compared to all the other men I have been with, it is very hard and painful for me to take all of him in and when we try to I am in serious pains. We have been married for 5 months now and I know my husband as not for one day enjoyed making love to me and he usually compares me to all the other black women he has been with. Please I would like to know if there is a special way of pleasing a Nigerian man in bed, how I can go about it and also how to deal with taking the whole of him. We don't plan on having babies anytime soon because we are still trying to understand each other better. We are coming to Nigeria soon and I want his family to see him happy and well taken care of. Please I would appreciate your help. Thank you.