My lecturer husband is having an affair

Ask Mamalette Category: Marriage & Relationships My lecturer husband is having an affair
Staff asked 2 months ago

Hi Mamalettes, I greet you all. Please I need your candid advice. My husband is a lecturer and we have been married for 3 years, I love my hubby so much and he loves me too, we have two kids, the issue is that there is this student my hubby has been talking to, she was a course Rep when my husband was handling their class, she used the opportunity to communicate with my husband 24/7 and she has visited once to take textbooks. Now she has moved to next level yet she keeps calling and my husband keeps calling her also. The other time, she called while I was with my hubby, she asked if he's in the office that she wants to come around, my hubby told her that he's not In d school but he will be in school next day. I asked my hubby, y he's still communicating with that lady, since d lady has moved to d next level. What's going on with both of them, he said d lady is just a friend nothing much. I Quietly took d lady's no from his phone and add her on whatsapp, I keep seeing her no on d call log. Today, I was surprised to see her 3 missed calls, I was shocked! I asked my husband who gave d girl my no,his face changed, it took him some minutes to think before he replied. He said d girl was demanding my no that's y he gave it out and secondly I won't keep suspecting them, I should call d lady to find out if anything is going on between them and moreover d girl is our family friend. I was furious! I said 'iyanga dy sleep, trouble dey wake am' so your girlfriend is now our family friend Abi? I started cursing him and told him that I will deal with that lady since it has reached to that extent. He left, am sure he called her to find out if spoke with her or not. Please Mamalettes, my question is, did I over reacted? Should I call her back and find out y she want she called earlier? I know most lecturers are womanizers, what do I do?

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