Mamalettes I am a single mother with a 4 year old son. I am currently dating a man who is also a single father. His wife died during childbirth, he has a 3 year old daughter. We have been going out for 1 year and we were already talking marriage when all of a sudden he said he wasn't doing any more because my son brings back memories of me and another man and he doesn't like it. According to him my son makes him imagine me on another man and he feels like he is offending God by being with me and my son when my son still has a father. He said anytime he wants to make love to me and he sees my son, he loses his er..tion because he feels like he is doing something bad. I am thinking of taking my son to his father for him to also be a part of his life at least till my fiance can come to terms with the fact that I am a single mother. What do I do mamas. I don't want to leave him. I do love him. He treats me well. Should I leave my child behind?