Good evening Mamas in the house. Through a dating site online, I got to meet two White men from USA. One is a young Army Officer serving in Afghanistan currently and is my junior in age but he doesn't mind(he's 32 and am 37-although ppl say I look 25),the other is an elderly widower who has a 14 year old son and he is a Sailor, currently on the high seas as his video and pictures suggest to me. He said his wife died while giving birth to his son and since then, cos he's always on the high season, he didn't have time to love till now and he is 50 years. Both of them want to come to Nigeria later soon. The Captain said as soon as his ship berths and he finishes from China, he will come to Nigeria, even the Soldier too. Am confused now cos I have had two major disappointments in life that made me wary of men and marriage in the past, now again, I see this as a big puzzle to me. Am I making a mistake great Mums? Your advice is highly sought, pls. God bless u all. The Captain has said that he's economically very OK and I won't have to worry about anything. He just wants me to love his son, as he is thinking of settling with me