Good evening and mamas and paps in the house, please I need closure on this. Well here is my situation. My wife of 15 years decided that she wanted to leave me next month. We are two professionals with great jobs and 3 wonderful children. We never fight and I do not drink, smoke, or abuse her in any way. This whole episode has me confused and very upset. I love her with my whole heart and obviously that feeling is not mutual. She told me about a week ago she wanted to leave. I read all the books and forums and found that you are to give them the space they need to figure out what they want. So I helped her get a place 2 minutes away from the house. I have asked her to reconsider, but she is set on leaving for some reason. She has already sat down with me and discussed splitting all the assets and the custody of our three children. It is like I am living in a nightmare that just gets worse every single day. I asked her why she was doing this and the only thing she said was that she "Loves me, but is not in love with me" I am a decent looking guy. So it leaves me to believe that there may be someone else. She is always on her phone and when I get close to her, she says I am bothering her. All affection in the relationship has ended with her uptime on the phone. I see her laughing when she is on it and basically, all she does is sit around and play on it. She has gone on 3 separate trips in the last 12 months without me, and has never done that before in 15 years. She said she had to see if she missed me and she said she didn't. But, I don't know the friends she went on the trips with to confirm all of the information she told me. Like I said, I am heart broken right now and very confused. Any words of condolence would be greatly appreciated and your opinions valued.