Hello everyone, I just recently separated from my wife nearly four months ago (not on my terms tho, my wife left when she saw someone richer) I have had a really hard time dealing with the emotions. I have not been myself since she left to think our marriage was barely 2 years old. As much as I wanted kids and asked her for one, she kept telling me she wasn't ready that it would disturb her career and I respected her idea. Little did I know that it was because she wanted to keep looking attractive for her boyfriend. She left me for one of their clients at work and she hasn't even deemed it fit to call me or tell me anything. I had to do my investigation to know the little I know about her. She called me to tell me she is coming to pack her things this weekend and I don't want her to meet me sober and lonely. Please how do I do it that I look like I have moved on and forgotten about her. I don't drink or take drugs and I am very sensible; I have let my wife get on with things without any problems. I am here on this very good forum to ask for advice and guidance because although I realize that things will get better in time, I am just so tired of this heartbreak!