Mamalette and papalette please help post an advice needed. I know him since 2011, we got married 2014. The problem started when we travel to my place for TM because we both from different state, there was argument between the both families consenting bride price which make the groom family to got angry and live me behind, I was crying like tomorrow will never come, Then I took courage an traveled back to my base, we both reside in Lagos. He came back apologize but my mind was makeup not to marry him again but after too much of pleading I accepted him back on one condition, that we should go back to my village an settled wit my people, because I know they are wicked ,if we refused to go they will deal wit us badly. He later send the bride price to them true bank .we proceeded to court marriage and church wedding, after six I took in time to delivered I lost the baby I told my husband that we should go to my village an settle with my people becus I smell trouble from de start he refuse, after six month again I started another journey of pregnancy time for delivery I lost de baby boy again stillbirth both (via cs). The pain is too much for me, my husband vow not to go an make peace becus of how they treated him n his people that day, now all the problems am facing in this marriage is at the result of that, am so scared of another pregnancy becus my past experience am almost die wit de baby is by his grace am alife today. I am tried and frustrated already pls help advice on how to handle this. Am 29,Akwa Ibom He 33,frm Abia.Pls hide id. notify when posted.
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