Good day mamas and papas in the house, please I need help! I have always taken care of our finances, i just remember the account numbers better so it's easier for me to do and mostly he cant be bothered. anyway two years ago i lent my sister 800k. she needed it urgently and she paid it back the same week. i never told my husband because he doesn't like my sister and she's always in financial difficulty. any way the other week i let it slip that i had lent her money a while back and now he got really upset with me over it. he asked how much, knowing i was in trouble and being put on the spot i said 200k. he's now saying that he cant trust me at all how could i lend her money and not tell him etc. so now hes going through all our bank statements looking for what ive been spending money on. this is the only time ive ever done anyhing i shouldnt have with our money but the way he sees it is because he works and i dont i have no right to buy anything i dont ask for. i feel like ive ruined everything over one little mistake add on top of that his going  through the accounts will prove that i lied again by not telling him the real amount. is what ive done that wrong?