Good evening house. My marriage is 3 years now with two kids, 2 months after I had my 1st baby I traveled to write my final exams in school and when I returned, I found c..doms lying everywhere. I confronted him & he tried to deny, the argument got intense & he hit me. He apologized and promised not to do all of that again but he hasn't kept his promise ever since,we've always had issues on infidelity from his end,that I even had to treat an infection sometime. Now 2 days ago, he called me at about 9 pm to say he was about leaving the office, I somehow knew he wasn't being truthful eventually he got home ayt 12am. I was curious so I decided to check his car and I found a c..dom and some money under his car seat,I removed them. Tried talking to him about it d next day but he didn't say a word,he wasn't even sorry, still very hardened. He has refused to give me money for anything not even food,even when I told him that the baby needs formula & cereal he said he doesn't have any money. He doesn't talk to me anymore.if I need money for anything at all in d house,I'd have to go to the ATM.(money I saved during my service year). Now am thinking of returning d money & c..dom to his car and just ignore him. pls Is this a wise decision?