Is it a bad thing to not share a bed with my husband?

Ask Mamalette Category: Marriage & Relationships Is it a bad thing to not share a bed with my husband?
Anonymous asked 6 months ago

My husband and I have been married for 1 and half years. We didn't  sleep together when we were dating as we were in a long distance relationship and for religious reasons. When we finally got married I now began to regret that I did not know how he sleeps. Whenever we sleep on the same bed, I feel like I'm war every night. Hubby snores, drags the bed cover, kicks or scratches me with his toe nails or finger nails, talks very loud in his sleep, sleeps anyhow on the bed, reducing the space I have to sleep on and once he has dragged the pillow right out from under my head while I was sleeping. He always apologises when I complain but I have realised that its his nature and cannot change him. So the good news is that  since I've been pregnant he's been sleeping in the living room so he doesnt disturb me at night.  I don't think I've slept this well since we got married, and I am now happier because of it. I am thinking we should continue like this even after the baby comes. So my question is, is it a bad thing to not share a bed with my husband?

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