Mamas and papas I need your advice. I had a son out of wedlock and now the baby is 5years old. I'm now married and I just put to bed the baby is 2 months old (boy). My husband is with the military and was transferred out of Lagos while I was still pregnant. Before living lagos , he has never trusted me. He gets mad at the slightest provocation. Although he doesn't cheat, I know his password to everything but the jealousy aspect is too much. Even with pregnancy he doesn't trust me. He accuses me of going out with men and because of that he asked me to move out of the house to our other house which his mom stays. Now, I'm there with my first son whom he has claimed but the problem is this: since I'm still on maternity leave. My mother doesn't allow me touch her pot. She cooks by 1pm everyday, she doesn't allow me cook for her. She said she doesn't eat food prepared by someone else. OK, how will I eat food that is not up to rice hundred naira which is been served for myself and son? I requested for rice which my husby sent and the rice is hidden in their room. The food they serve by that time is what they expect me to carry till the next day (afternoon). If I request for money husby will be shouting at me calling me names before he will eventually send it. He doesn't want me to go to my parents house claiming I'm going there to meet other men. If I even go out to eat something, he will call his mom to note when I left and when I return. There is no trust. This morning I asked him for money for feeding and he said okay I should go to my parents house he will be sending me money for my children's upkeep until we will move down to where he is. He threatened to chase me out of the house if I can't endure to be eating by 2pm till 2pm the next day. I'm scared of him. please what should I do?