Hello mamas, good day. Please don't judge me, I did something that I am not proud of to my ex and the fact that he has moved on is getting to me.  I found out last night that my ex husband has already moved on. I left my husband in May last year, I didn't want to but he was running up so much debt that i didn't want him to drag me down with him. I've struggled all year. Especially after I left him, I had my birthday in November which I just ignored. Then December was hard with our wedding anniversary, Xmas and new year, I was sad all through because I was alone.
You all might think my reason for leaving him was because I didn't care enough. I married him for his money, I was a bad wife etc. But the truth is this man made me go through but for some reason I am still in love with him.
My sister called me last night that something came on her  Facebook page that he was in a new relationship. He put a status up saying how pleased he is to have her after the worst year of his life! I know she's just the next victim but it hurts so much. I've not seen the post myself but a few family members have and they've said she even looks like me. We were together for 10 years.
I know I need to move on, but it just hurts. It feels like day one all over again. Please encourage me