Good afternoon Mamaletes and my fellow Papalet's. 
 
Please am disturbed and I need each everyone of you suggestion and advice if possible a counselling is needed. 
 
My wife and I happen to be Mamaletes page addicted as in we can't do without checking the page every seconds searching for a gist to read and learn from. 
 
Am 36yrs old while my wife is 32yrs old an we are blessed with 2 boy's (4 and 2yrs old).
 
We just move in to our own house somewhere around Lagos. And I happened to be the type that doesn't like been alone and am new in this area also I don't want to keep friends here and I was like let me look for young guys that are not my age mate to be moving with. Luckily enough for me. I picked my Bricklayer and Plumber to be my friend and they all called me Egbon (Big Bros) and theres this other two guys as well that later join them cos they both live at the back of my building so my house always busy in the night whenever they're back from their daily routine.
 
The guy I called plumber among them happened to be a chronic womaniser and he smokes too. The second guy which is the bricklayer just stylishly share some attitude with me; so calm, friendly, jovial and God fearing.  So I picked him to be my 5 and 6 but still friends with the two of them. 
Sometimes last year 2016 someone called me among them that he notice something between my wife and the plumber guy which I got angry immediately that what kind of insults is that. How do u expect my wife to date someone younger than her not that alone. I cloth this guys and do all sort of things and my wife hate smokers in a short is far from my wife standard. So i ignore the stuff and only tell the guy thank you. Around November I was called again by another person. There I now come to my senses that my wife and this plumber guy were so closed like am closed to the other guy that share everything in common with. The only work I sent these guys to do for me is only to help me wash my car or get me fuel at the filling station to power the gen. 
 
Hmmmn. To cut the story short. The plumber guy in question called his second that I said we are close on phone that he want to confirm if we on generator and that one said no. I jump in and tell him to tell him to come and charge his phone that I'll be switching on the gen soon. 
So he came. And his second switch on the gen and we all sit in the sitting room watching a move while my wife was busy in the kitchen and later go to the bathroom to have her bath. At exactly 11.45am; she came to the sitting to tell me that she want to quickly get to the market to get some stuff to sell cos she has a shop at home where she sell food stuff and provisions.  Immediately she left. At about 12 dot. The plumber phone rang and I saw my wife name on it (the phone was just opposite me so I could see very well that it's my wife that calling him) and I said why is my wife calling you. He said himself didn't know why. The calling was like a flash. It doesn't last long. While asking the guy why my wife is calling him. He just remove the phone from the charger and left leaving the charger in the plug.  (Imagine someone that wanted to charge o)
Chai. My temperature was high and am angry immediately due to all what have been hearing all this while but I didn't let the second guy know what's going on. 30mins later. I just called the guy attention to what happened and he said he was confused too cos he called him that he want to charge his phone before we power the generator. So he doesn't know why he's not charging anymore. I just laugh and initiate a gist about the movie we are watching so I won't have an hypertension.  
 
At exactly 1.45pm I went to the bathroom to have my bath so I can go pick my kids from the school.  And I heard my wife voice from outside meaning she's back from the market. So she ask hw far I said am fine. I didn't confront her or ask her anything was actually waiting for her to talk but she didn't . We just play and she collected my phone that she want to call someone on the street and she's out of call card which I gave her my phone to call. So I zoom off to go pick the kids. As am driving out of my compound I saw the plumber guy that left since morning coming in just 3mins after my wife arrived . Jesu. I got mad again and I zoom off with annoyance. I drop the kids at home and and go back out again then comes back in the night around 8.30pm; met my wife in the living room. I greeted her and I play with the kids as usual. Then I said madam. How can you called my boy when you left me at home.  Why him when u know I used 3 phones. He said what do I mean. Then I said you guys are dating!
My sisters. Come see as my wife dey cry, shout, and started raining curses on me in a louder voice thank God the generator was on if not the whole community will know what we talking about.  She just picked up her phone and called the guy I said am close with. And when that one arrives; he said egbon please come outside so she can control herself a bit so I go outside with that guy and before we could come's in back the door has been locked from inside by my wife and I saw her at the window shouting on me again that I ridicule her that I won't do this and that in life.  Not to beat her . I just pick my car key and left to sleep in an hotel. There my sisters started calling me and next day I invited everybody that we should meet in my mother's house. So they came and my mother said she's yet to believe that I should invite my wife and the guy that was there when we are fighting. So both parties talk and they all kneel down to beg me to please forgive her cos she told them that the calling was a mistake that her hand mistakenly touch the dial which I see to be a big lie. What kind of coincidence is that. Your hand didn't mistakenly DiAl any of my 3 numbers but could mistakenly called the guy that have been hearing all sort of things about you and him since last year and both of you left and comes back at the same time. Issokay
 
If I say make I begin write. Mark Zuckerberg go vex. 
 
Notice:
* I work as a Graphic Artist Freelancer so I can work anywhere there's light and Internet 
* I called the guy immediately my wife started shouting on me. By telling him that I don't want to see him in my house again. What he said was that if I see him there I should kill him. (He didn't ask me what he did o which I expect him to asked. That means something is fishing)
*None of my wife siblings called me on phone till now to ask how far they all pretend as if they didn't hear and I hear from my mother in law telling my mom that she has informed them
*my mother in law begged me not to tell my father in law 
*my sisters have been begging me to please forgive my wife since she said the called was an error and the guy leaving our house at the same time was a coincidence 
 
Mamas and Papas.  If you're in my shoe. Please what will you do. Cos am confused and couldn't stop thinking 

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