I got married to my hubby in 2012. We dated for 4 years before getting married, while we were dating, He was so nice and caring but after marriage, everything changed, He turned into another person, I gave birth and he hardly gives me money for my upkeep and that of my child, He prefers his family And friends to us. In 2014, I went to serve in Lagos and I stayed with my family, things were so bad that my brother asked us to be separated for sometime but he begged and after my service, I went back in Feb 2015. He lost his father in Dec 2014 and I went back because I pitied him. We had a very big quarrel when I went back, what actually caused the quarrel was that he was insulting my mum when we went for his father's burial and I slapped him (I know i was wrong for that but I can't watch some one insulting my mum after all she has been through for us)his family fought with my mum n my aunties that all came for the burial,He went to our house packed all my things including all my baby things..the truth is his family never liked me bcos they thought I spend all his money and don't allow him give them money not knowing that my family usually care for me even after marriage bcos i always complained to my family.My mum took me and my child with her to Lagos and she said i will never go back to him,we must divorce.Feb 2016,He came back and begged me and we started seeing secretly,He later went to beg my mum and in june 2016,I took in,he asked me and my child to come back but my mum refused,I begged my mum and brother but they refuse,it caused a big problem in my house bcos everyone said i went to disgrace them,after a lot of pleading,my family asked me to go and never to come back,we all came back in April 2017 and since then it has been hell,he doesn't give us Money,Even when I gave birth to my 2nd child,He refused to send money to me bcos he said he told us to come and we refused,that my family should bear responsibilities,now we are back to him and he doesn't give us Money,Even feeding money is a problem,He beats me everyday and he was the one that told me to stop working and i obeyed him...now am thinking what my friend's told me back then was the truth,that he has seen I have moved on and want to come back to make me stagnant again. Am really sorry for the long post but pls I need advice on wat to do because am thinking of divorcing him and moving on again but i have no one to run to again since my family has disowned me,Pls wat do i do,did I make a mistake by coming back