Good day house, please I need advice on this. The thing is my wife of 8 years has been very distant lately and not wanting to even be close to me let alone hold hands. We had a serious heart to heart talk and she told me she doesn't love me anymore. I am dying inside. We have three children ( 4, 5, 8 ). She told our mutual friends that I am a great father, husband, and provider, but she is tired of the marriage and don't know what the problem is. She even admited to feeling like a bad mother and wife because of her current state. I admit things have been routine and I am away two times a week for work. When I am gone she says that she is so used to it that she doesn't miss me. She told me that there isn't another guy when I asked if that was the reason she was talking about getting tired of our union. She insisted that there was none that she was seeing or even talking to. S.x has stopped and the passion is gone. We recently started at a local gym and are in the best shape of our lives, we both feel great about this. No longer sitting around and being lazy. This is the only thing that has changed for us. I need help in a bad way. Life is not good right now but keeping up the face at home for kids.