got married early this year to a man whom I thought was everything a woman could ever ask for, now I regret it.

Sadly, since we got married, we have gone from one problem to the other. He lives abroad, while I live in Nigeria. I live in the same compound with my husband’s parents but in a different flat.

It’s sad but my husband’s family hates and treats me badly. I have been accused of all sorts from flirting, witchcraft, to being possessed and fetish. The worst part of this is that my husband is also not on my side as he doesn’t treat me well, apart from the financial aspect. He accords me with no respect, can say anything to me when he is angry and would show no remorse, neither will he apologise afterwards.

In my husband’s opinion, he’s never wrong, he’s always in the right, very temperamental, always complaining, and gets angry over little things. He can stop calling or picking my calls for days until I get his friend to plead with him. And when he finally calls after days of begging, he would still nag and insult me.

The truth us I am so frustrated in this marriage and I need advice on what to do. He called me few days ago and told me to leave his house. That came from no where. I told my parents who have decided to wait for him to return next week, so that we can all talk about all our issues but I am tired already. I was fat but I’ve lost weight drastically due to these issues stressing me out.

I told my mum that even if she apologises, I can’t continue in this marriage. She said she understands but she is scared this might not be the will of God. I am just 23 and a graduate. I don’t want to leave and later regret it. I need advice and clear directions on what to do?

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