Good day mamas and papas in the house, please I need advice on how to handle this matter. The thing is my sister and I have never really been best of friends because my parents usually favour her more in everything because she is way more intelligent than I am and they say me I am just pretty face that I am not serious. Well, I grew up having this internal hatred for my sister even though I never let her know. The problem now is that I met a guy on a trip to SA one time and we exchanged numbers but later I found out that the guy was not who I though he was, in fact it was his first time entering a plane. I got disappointed so every time he called me, I used to ignore his calls, then one day my sister picked it up and spoke to him and that was how they started talking o and before I knew it, they exchanged numbers and became really good friends. They have been friends for 5 years now and on Sunday, my sister told me that the guy asked her to marry him and she said yes, she said she was just telling me to be sure that I am okay with it and I told her I am but I am actually not okay with it because if my sister should get married before me my parents would victimize my life with it even more. I have been feeling bad about her marriage plans since then. Please house, help me out here, I don't know why I am feeling this way. what can I do?