When I was serving in year 2000, there was this corper that fell in love with me. He was so kind, humble, caring, wonderful name it but I never liked him like that, I only saw him as a friend. Then we were serving in Ibadan and the boy was from Ogun state while I am from Ondo, he was the first Yoruba boy that went extra miles to make me happy but I just never liked him like that, all through service year we were always together till I met this tall sexy doctor. He was so charming, adorable and sweet. He had a good job, good house and good life I though. 2 years after service, I got married to the doctor, it was then I knew i had made a huge mistake, my husband was the definition of a fine boy, he impregnated me and impregnated his nurse at the same time, he married her in a year after he married me. Like that wasn't enough, he had 2 other concubines that got pregnant for him as well. To cut the story short, I had 4 children for him while he had 7 others outside. I couldn't take it anymore, the shame was too much, I became a shadow of myself because I kept thinking and thinking, I had to leave him in year 2014 so that I could comfortably take care of my children. Last week, I traveled to Abuja for a business meeting, when I was returning, my flight got delayed so I had to wait at the lounge and I was staring at the VIP lounge hoping I would chill there someday when I can afford to fly first class, that was what I was staring at when I saw my old boyfriend the corper that had nothing then coming out from, at first I didn't want to greet him but later I went to him and he was so happy to see me, he greeted me so well and even asked after my doctor husband, I had to tell him he was fine and that he was at home with the kids to save face, he told me he just flew in from Canada for a project in Abuja that his wife and kids are abroad. since then, I have been thinking about what my life would have been like if I had married him instead of the doctor that i married. It was then I realized I had used my husband as boyfriend. Single ladies, please not all that glitters is gold o, I am a 40 year old single mum of 4 kids, who can I blame, no one, only myself