Good day mamas and papas in the house, please I need your advice and words of encouragement. Please what do you do when you find out that the one you love have just been scamming you. I am a married man but my wife is a pain cheating up and down with every man that comes her way so I have been dating this young girl in my area for almost 2 years now but before I started dating her I asked her if she had a girlfriend and she said no that she doesn't do small boys. I explained to her that I was going to marry her as long as she is faithful to me because I was planning on divorcing my wife then. She said understood and that she wouldn't want anything more than to be my wife. The first money this girl collected from me was project money, she billed me 100,000k and I gave her, then she asked me for money for graduation, I gave her 15ok to rent canopy, cook and buy her dresses and pay for her convocation gown. Then when she was going to camp, I bought her an Iphone 6, provision, and still gave her money to spend and shop for white uniforms. Then she said they posted her to Abuja so I gave her 60k to book her flight to and fro after  camp, then I begged her to redeploy that I could not cope with her absence and she said she would. When she got to camp she stopped calling regularly and picking my calls. I asked her why she would do such a thing and she said that there was no place to charge her phone. Then she later told me she could not redeploy that she didn't have medical report. I sent her 100k again to falsify a medical report but she said that she still couldn't do it. I was angry for a while but I let it go. Then she begged me to send her money to get an apartment and I sent her 150k again. Then I started seeing her posting pictures of her and one small boy in Abuja, I asked her about him and she claimed it was just his boss nothing more. I told her I didn't like them being together and she said okay. Now she is back in Lagos but since she passed out, I haven't set my eyes on her. She has been avoiding me. I finally saw her today and she shouted thief on me that she doesn't know me and that I am embarrassing her. I was shocked and I stood looking at her, few minutes later, a man came out carrying wedding gown, I looked up and saw that I was actually standing in front of a bridal shop. Please house, I am pained and I want her to feel my pain too. I want all the money I spent on her back. Please how do I get it back?