Hello Mamalettes, please I have a serious issue at hand, I have been dating a divorcee for some time now. She is just 35 while I am 37, she has 3 children from her previous marriage but she doesn't look it, she is very beautiful and well put together. The first time I saw her, I knew I wanted her as my wife. Although, she is Yoruba and I am Igbo but I love her a lot. The problem I have now is with her children, I want to marry her but only on a condition that she gives the children to their father to take care of them or she takes them to their grandparents so that we can start our own family together with no interference and then subsequently we can have the children come stay with us after we must have had our own children together. The thing again is, I don't feel right taking care of another man's children that will not bear my name, maybe if they bear my name I can have a sense of responsibility for them plus it is their mother I love, not them, so why should I marry them with their mother. Please how do I table this matter before her? She's coming over to my place tomorrow and I want her to know how I really feel. Thank you