Good day mamas and papas in the house, please I need your advice and I won't even say don't judge or insult me because I know that would even prompt you all to do that. All I beg from you all is that even in the insults, please let there be small advice that would help my life. This is my story; when I was serving, I served in Ondo town, I met this very rich handsome man, he was married and I knew it because he looked it and he had his ring on him, he looked like he was in his early 50s while I was just 23. He offered me a ride once and that was how I became his mistress. When our relationship was getting serious, he told me that he would do anything for me except marriage and I must not take in for him that if I ever do, I would have to terminate it and I said I understood and then he told me again that any woman he goes in deep with that no man can ever be with her. That bad things will happen to such men and I told him I agreed because I thought he was joking and he was only trying to mark his territory. I have been with this man for 6 years now, he has spoiled me rotten and spent a lot on me. Bought me a house, a car and started different businesses for me and I follow him on every business trips both local and foreign. It was on one of our foreign trips that I met my boyfriend, a white man that is head over heels in love with me. I told him that the married man I was with was my father and he believed. We have since then been communicating and he wants to come to Nigeria to meet my parents and ask for my hand in marriage. He is due in town in August and so I told this my married man that I cannot do again, that I regret everything I have done and how I must have hurt his family and he told me I can only be done when he tells me he is done and right now he isn't done and If I try anything funny, I would pay dearly for it. I don't now what to do. I have told my best friend and she asked me to contact his wife and report myself to her so that she can intercede on my behalf but I don't know if that is a right move. Please mamas help me, my life is at stake. I need help as I am very desperate right now.