Good day mamas and papas in the house, please I need your help because I just realized that I have the worst mother in the world. I am a 27 year old lady, single but I have a married man on my neck. My mother taught me that only dumb girls get married that when she was married to my father that she was miserable that my father had a mistress and that mistress was the one enjoying. She left my father when I was 10 because she decided to be a mistress to an old man, this man died and willed his entire property to my mother. My mother told me that it is not on her life that she would see me getting married to any man that I have to be wise. She started introducing me to men at the age of 19, the worst part was anytime she sees that I am falling for them, she would look for a way to send them away from me. Now, I have been dating one particular married man for 2 years now, he is very rich and he takes care of both my mother and I but I always feel guilty. His wife came to my house yesterday, heavily pregnant and she was begging me to leave her husband alone that I should please for the sake of her unborn child she was crying and I felt terrible. My mother saw her and walked her out of our compound, I fought with my mom and she said there is nothing I can do that that man would never leave me alone because she has made sure of that. I asked her what she meant but she didn't tell me anything. I am scared, it is like I dont know my own mother again. Please house, what can I do, I am tired of this life, yes I have money and I am a big girl but I want my own man. Please advise me, how do I get the man off my back?