My husband won't eat my food because I make the money in the home

Hello mamas and papas in the house, please I need your help on this important issue that is turning my house upside down. My husband lost his job 2 years ago and since then I have been the breadwinner of the family making all the money in the home and feeding the entire family but ever since I started doing this, it is as if my husband has been envious of me that it is now making him misbehave. The thing is that, If I cook in the house, my husband would tell me he is not eating that he is not interested in my food that maybe it is my food that even made him less of a man. I would go to him every time and be begging that he should please forgive me then when I do this he would ask me to give him some money. At times, 20k at other times 50k. He will just mention the amount and insist I give it to him and the moment I do, he would leave the house for days, sometimes weeks even. So many times I have refused giving him money but he would say it is not my fault that no man prays to be in his shoes because when a woman becomes the breadwinner in the family they tend to forget how the man has been providing before his calamity. He doesn't see the good in anything I do and it is annoying. Now, I didn't go to work today because I am not feeling fine and I overheard my husband talking to a woman on the phone that she should not come again that he would come and meet her at the guest house that he would just try and get some money from me now. He even told her he loves her and I can't remember the last time he told me he loved. After this I got up from bed, took my car keys and drove off before he could even tell me anything. He has been calling my phone since but I have been ignoring him. Now I don't even know what to do again. Please house, help me o. This isn't the man I married again. Help!!!