Please Mamas and papas in the house help me because I am loosing it, this is my 6th year in marriage and my hubby has been a very nice and gentle man, people tells me he is a very nice man, some use him as an example when trying to give advice and I know he loves me and the kids a lot, but I've been having trust problems because he is very secretive. He passwords his phone and will not let me even see or touch it, when I complain he says I always misunderstand whatever I come across on his phone, so for peace to reign he prefers locking it. I am tired because my mind keeps telling me he's doing something wrong, he doesn't go out, always from his shop to the house but he travels a lot. Please Mamas, can you pls tell me some ways to find out if he is cheating I feel like unlocking his phone but I can't. Please I am just scared