late in d mid. Btw d hours of 2-3am. Or he doesn't even come in at all A lot of delibations and talks and warnings concerning his movement, all fell into deaf hears to the extent that he now no longer sleeps at home for like 2ce in a week..i then try to carry on with my life haven fought, shouted and advised him. But before then , even while he was employed , have had my share of domestic violence from him more than 5 times. Parents have interfered and all but he still didn't stop not until I took the bull by the head and retaliated last year when he hit me, I didn't know where the strenght came from , I descended on him and doubled the slap on him. I also realized he's a serial cheater. With loads of evidence from his phone. At a time, we both reunited again. But this year has been a terrible and tough one has hubby has now upgraded to showing his non-challant side. He no longer speak to me, today makes it the 9th week we haven't said the alphabet 'A' to each other. And we sleep under same roof and he eats my food. This is really eating me up , I feel so uncomfy living with a man for 5 years and for the past 9 weeks we have not said a word to each other. Did I also forget to mention the he ceased mobile phone. My issue now is that , he has made my heart so hardened and no more love at all. Am now a very strong woman at my very young age of 25. While he's 12 years older than I am. He has made me a pained woman which has automatically turned me to a sad woman. Please mamas , help what can I do to this type of man as I no longer think straight. Am so diverted in my thoughts and in all i do and it's also affecting our child. I feel so unloved and like am a nobody with very low self esteem now. Help a sister pls. Kindly hide my identity and notify me once it's posted. Thank you so much.