Good day house, please I need your help on whether or not I should leave my marriage. I have been married for less than a year. My parents still don't know I'm married but I think they figured it out. they don't approve of my husband based on his educational level. he only went to a Polytechnic while I went to uni and I even have a Masters degree. He started a post graduate degree program a year ago which he does part time and he does not work. He drinks, more heavily than I realized when we were dating , he smokes weed, its air to him. He has super wealthy parents who 'supports' him, giving him a free apartment in a nice part of the city, a car, all utilities , he got into a habit of always asking them for cash when he wanted it; and they gave it to him. until i asked them to stop doing this. This has caused him to resent me. he said I'm stressing him out when I say I don't want to live off his parents charity and buy our own house(I have enough money to afford us a decent house). I also don't like that most of my things are in storage. I want him to finish school by going full time and getting a real job. he is going even slower with school. I love my husband but we are getting into constant arguments about me not wanting him to depend on his parents generosity, i also feel that by putting me in a position of depending on others. he says he doesn't want money from me, has a hard time accepting that we should be independent off his parents. I make more than he does, and he doesn't like me paying for stuff. We both really want this to work but ill ask you what you think? What can we do?