I need a matured advice. I am married with four kids.I did traditional and white wedding, we even did marriage registry. I do have some challenges in my marriage but the one I needed advice from is my husbands character.
Initially, any time I had issues with hubby he use to report me to her immediate elder sis cos I respect her a lot. She will call me and asked me what happened, after explaining to her she will talk to us. After sometimes any time my husband calls her to complain d misunderstanding we had, my sil doesn't call to hear my own side she will call be and start insulting me but I will keep calm some times I  will start  crying. There was a day she called me and started call me names that I want to kill her brother, I was quite while she was raining insults on me, calling me different names. Before I knew it, she started insulting my parents, that they didn't train me well that she has to blame them. When she started insulting my parents, I also insulted her back and that was the first time I had ever talked back at her. After that case becos I really insulted her. My husband stopped complaining our misunderstanding to her. Now my husband has started complaining to his mother. We had a little issue ( he went out and came back very late at night for four consecutive days so I called him to know why the sudden change, but he ignored me) so becks of dat we have not been talking to each other before he traveled. I was surprise when mother in law called me and was asking me to take care of his son. In fact she told me every thing my husband told her but I only told mil that I have heard what she said. So I called hubby and was asking him why his mother but he denied telling his mother anything.
Pls I need advice on how to deal with this type of man that likes complaining his wife to his family.