Good day mamas and papas in the house, please I need some advice or opinion on my situation as I myself am not sure what to do anymore. My husband (38) of almost 3 years, together for 10 years has the bad habit of staying out all night when he goes out with friends, coming home anytime between 4 - 6am and this morning 7:00am! Now this does not happen very often, a couple of times a year, maybe 4 or six times. He's been doing this since I met him so I am sure many of you would say that after so many years it shouldn't be a surprise to me, I know but the thing is that after 10 years of fighting, discussing and even talking nicely to him about it, he still does it, I know why he stays out so late, drinking, drugs and clubbing or what ever. Now my thing is, I always forgive him because I do love him and we do have a good relationship in between these happenings but I am currently 4 months pregnant and are just sick of this behaviour, it's never been acceptable and I just dont know what to do to get him to stop doing it, be more responsible and grow up. I feel like I have reached a dead end with him on this, what more can I do, I have told him hundreds of times not to do it and what I find acceptable, which is to be home around 12:00am on such nights, thats my limit which I dont think is too unreasonable, but surely he does not respect that. I have always given him lots of freedom, so its not like he needs to break out for a change but I am sick and tired having to fight with him about this, why cant he just be responsible by himself? Now I guess my question is, how do I resolve this, do I pack my things and leave, which I will admit I am very scared to do or do I give him an ultimatum? Any advice would be appreciated....