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Staff asked 3 months ago
Hubby paid my bride price only early last year and we have been living together, I am a TTC. I am 23 and he is 35. Hubby is the type of person that is hot tempered and doesn't forget things. He has seriously beaten me once. He Will keep reminding me of things I said and did to him each time we have misunderstanding(but won't say what he also told you oh). When I got married, he will tell me all sort of bad things that kills my spirit, I will just keep quiet and later will start crying. He Will not even look at my face. So, this time around, we had serious argument days before we traveled to village for burial. He said that the marriage is Over and that when we reach the village, he will call his family members and tell them. So I pleaded with him but he refused... I called one of his sisters and told her.She called and he didn't answer, so she suggested that she would call my Hubby"s people and tell them. My mil called and told us to come back to village first.So a night before we went, we settled our differences after the call.we made love.we agreed we won't say anything at the village.we were happy when we arrived. So, two days later,mil called me asked me what the problem was, I told her, we had a little misunderstanding but we are ok. So mil called me later in the evening and said that hubby told her that (1) I do challenge him and answer him back (2) I am not domesticated like his sisters. (3) I carry my family at heart and I want him to do a lot for my family(don't even know where this one is coming from oh). THat He hates me now. He doesn't see me attractive to him. Hubby attitude change towards me. He doesn't seem to see me again. Always with his mum, whenever I come,his attitude changes. Some of our secrets,his mum told me everything.Was surprised.When I went to visit my people,he refused to come with me, I cried and pleaded but refused but later came the next day and just stayed like ten minutes and left.mil called two of her daughter's and told them that am not a good person and they called me and told me all sort of things. Due to the fact that my gynecologist told me to wait and complete my fertility test before going back to the city. Hubby left and didn't tell me. I came to our room and saw that his clothes were no longer there and I asked my mil,she said he already left. I called hubby many times,he didn't answer.He hasn't called me back either. My father has been calling hubby to ask him of his health but he hasn"t answered or called back. Hubby Only calls my mil to check on her. Am so hurt. Fil said that hubby told him that he will come back next week. Am so confused. Mil has been saying so many side talks when ever she see me. Mil said that I should call My people and tell them so that they will not say they didn't hear, which I obeyed.my father called my fil and told him that if they are no longer interested that they should tell us now.I have been fasting and praying since Monday for God's will to be done in my marriage. Experience mother's should help me. It is so complicated.Advice me please.
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