Good evening Precious Mamalettes and Papalettes. I've been married for 12 years now with 3 kids. All through this year's God has really blessed my family tremendously. The only problem I have with the marriage is that Hubby is a control freak. You dare not take any decision or go anywhere without his consent. The biggest challenge I face in the marriage is Abuse, both physically and verbal and all sorts. Hubby does his responsibilities and he's spiritual but he can talk me down anywhere and anytime. He qualifies me with words like sombi,mumun etc infront of our kids and we fight and quarrel infront of this children almost everyday including in front of our workers and even our children teachers.I am not claiming any perfection here but the truth is that we are not compatible. He insults my family at any slightest opportunity. The issue on ground now is that we had an argument over 2 weeks now and I left him and the kids for good. Now he's claiming I left him because I've found another lover. He's been begging and family members too has intervened but I insisted I'm not going back because I'm fed up. Now I don't have anything to fall back on now and I do have health challenges like headache before I left and even now that I'm no more there. I love my children so much that I wouldn't want to leave them for him but he has sworn that I would never have those kids with me and I don't even have anything to fall back on because all this years we have been building our business together. I'm in serious pain now please any word of encouragement for me?