Me and my husband have 4 children together and we were doing fine. I never for once suspected or thought my hubby was cheating on me or he could even do such a thing to me.  I was disappointed when he forgot his phone at home last week and I read his chat to his ex. I am not the kind of person to be checking hubby's phone but he forgot the phone at home and he needed some info on it so he called me to get it for him which I did and I mistakenly read his Whatsapp message. I was angry at the things I read so when hubby came back, I confronted him and he didn't deny it, with that annoyance, I sent him out of the house and he begged and begged but I didn't let him in. After 8 years of marriage, he left me at home and was messing around with his ex whose marriage crashed 3 years ago. Now, my problem is that since the last time he came begging, which is a week today, he has not come back to beg. He has stopped begging and I hear that he has moved in with his ex. Now, when I call him he doesn't pick, please did I do wrong? He cheated on me, he is supposed to pay for it instead he is doing it boldly. Kindly help me please