I got married 1year and 2months ago, we are blessed with a baby of 4months. My MIL has 6 male children, from my observations she has favorite among her daughter in laws which I am not one, when I had my baby I had to go stay with her, meanwhile, My parents and MIL stay in the same town, my husband stays far away but within Nigeria, my MIL controls every affair of her children's marriages. Before we got married, during counseling we were warned never to stay in family house and I personally detest it. My MIL often complain anytime I visit my mum, she reports me to my husband, she doesn't correct me when I don't get certain things right, instead she would pick her phone and tell my husband. My husband's income is not buoyant to cater for our needs. I discussed with my husband that I would like to go into business which is very lucrative where my MIL stays (since I couldn't get a job after my second degree and I was raised by a single mom), he agreed, we settled on how we would be visiting each other. Then I put across to him about where I would be staying, he said I will stay with his mum which I disagreed because of what I saw when I stayed there for over 3months. Did I mention that her husband is late, her first son and family stays in same house. Now my MIL insists I must stay in her house. Pls how should I reject this because I will not b comfortable and happy staying in a family house.

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