How do we deal with this

Ask Mamalette How do we deal with this
Mamalette Support Team Staff asked 1 month ago

Good day house, this is really a long story but i'll try to cut it as short as i can. 31 years ago when my mum met my dad, he already had a 9 years old son (Let's call him A). Before they got married my mum asked him about his relationship with the mother of his son and he told her they didn't have a thing anymore and so they got married. His son's mother also married another man and this man hated his son because he wasn't his and so he said he never wanted to set his eyes on his son. Because of that my mum took care of son till he went out of university got a good job and got married. Now my mum has 4 sons (none is less than 20)and 1 daughter (17 yrs) which is I for my dad while my dad's ex wife has 3 daughters for her husband. In 2014 A's step-father died and so he now has access to his mother more. Last year December my dad had a meeting with my mum my 4 brothers and I. He told us he wanted to marry A's mother who is in her early 60's right now. He said his reason for doing that was to make A a legitimate child so he won't be criticized in the family. My dad is not rich so I know that is A that is taking care of the bride price and all that. That was the first time we all heard the news including my mother. We asked him what was going to happen after the marriage and he said she was going to to where she lived. Early this year we had a family meeting, this included aunts, uncles, cousins, etc. He twisted his words and said he was going to bring her to the house and we all have accepted. We got an information from a source that the wedding is next week. My mum took care of A all these years and now he is hurting her because he has the money. My dad's siblings except one are all supporting A and my dad. How do we deal with this?

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