how best to handle bad friends

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Mrs. Anthony asked 6 months ago

 

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My husband and I have been married for 2years now. Though it\\\\\\\'s not been all rosy, but then we manage to settle our differences. My husband is so fond of me to an extent people around us always see me as lucky. But ever since we moved into our new apartment things changed. Our two neighbors(also married) seeing how close and attached my husband is to me became envious. Their men will always look for an excuse to whisk my husband away from me at any given opportunity. These men I\\\\\\\'m talking are so into women,one among the two sleeps with both married and single ladies,the other deals with young girls. The keep trying everything possible to see that my husband follow their life style. I\\\\\\\'ve spoken to husband severally about this men,but my husband will always tell me he has things under control and he won\\\\\\\'t let them influence him. Not long I started seeing changes in my husband, the obvious one is he started keeping late nights. From my attitude to this men I made them know I\\\\\\\'m not comfortable with their association with my husband but yet they kept on. The one that triggered me the most is my husband went to work since morning, we communicated and he told me he won\\\\\\\'t be back till 7pm,he gave me reasons and I bought it. When he eventually came at that exact time he was about entering the house,but these men came whisked him out,he didn\\\\\\\'t enter the house again till 10pm. I was so furious I had to go the the wife of one of them to tell her to please tell her husband to cut off his association with me my husband. It caused a serious chaos. When they came my husband picked on me and for the first time rained abuses on me. He later went on to apologize to them. Please mamas what do I do? Did I over step? I\\\\\\\'m so devastated and it seems I\\\\\\\'m gradually loosing my husband to them

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