Help me, my hubby is a truck pusher

Ask Mamalette Category: Marriage & Relationships Help me, my hubby is a truck pusher
Staff asked 3 months ago

Good day dear able mum's and dad's. Please I need your candid advice on how to handle this pressing issues that is eating me up. it goes like this: I met my husband in mid 2013 and we did our traditional wedding and white wedding in 2015 . When I met my hubby he told me the whole truth about his life, family and all and I really welcomed it. I loved him for the truth he told me. The major thing he told me was that he is managing to survive. He has just learnt a particular trade for 1 year after his OND. After he learnt it, he was unable to raise fund because he didn't learn it as an apprentice. He paid to learn it. As a results of lack of money to start up the business, he went into hustling within the market to make ends meet. he even went to the extent of pushing trucks.in 2014, we where able to secure a half shop and I helped him with the little money I had to start up the business. Ever since then, he doesn't make much profit from the business. he complains that the business (is an auto parts business)needs a huge amount of money. After our wedding, I helped him to still renew the shop rent as he complained of no sale that the auto parts he bought for the shop isn't original as a lot of issue's were involved.
My pain now is that where I work the additional income I do get is no forth coming and I was unable to renew his shop rent for this year.the shop was taken over by another of his friend who could afford the rent. Now he is fully into pushing trucks in the market he comes home very weak and no strength for love making and we are TTC. My fellow mamas, pls advice me on what to do as most of the bills are now on me. how do we pick up from this issues, how I can help to save from him or which other business can I ask him to go for that requires less capital.though I help him to save 2k or 3k daily...pls any other ideas or strategy I can use on him to make him be up to expected as he is not thinking about other alternatives. ..pls advice me as it weighing me down.thanking you in advance. ..God bless you all

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