I really need advice. I am a very confused lady, I'm in a relationship with a guy that I love greatly and may like to get married to but he's not financially stable, he's still trying to make ends meet. And I have this ready made suitor that just doesn't wanna take a NO for an answer but I don't like him, his calls alone annoys me let alone his person but everyone encourages me to go for him especially my family, they say I will get to love him that love comes after marriage. The reason they are so much interested in this guy is cos I have never agreed to like any and the reason is cos I never found the one I like, but now that I have finally found him I can't tell my people yet cos they will insist he comes down otherwise they won't believe me but he doesn't have the means of going to them right now. My confusion now is how do I know the one I love wont disappoint even if I decide to be patient with him? Or can I find happiness with this other guy if I proceed to marry him? What if he leaves and the one I love get to disappoint me leading to the regret some persons are saying I will have when I let this suitor go now? How do I make my people have patience with me for a little while? NB: The one I like always keeps re assuring of his intention (Marriage) And this other suitor has been around even before this my guy came around but the interest has never been there, he is not just my type. I have been praying also but still don't get it cos after the prayers I see myself not even daring to consider him, but sooner or later I will find someone from family telling me to heed to their advice and agree with the guy. Am in my mid twenty and a presently serving and wouldn't want to make mistakes in this. Pls help, thanks.

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