I am 29 and my hubby is 30. We have been married for almost 5years and have a daughter that will be 4 in few months.  I will say our sex life is fine since it's twice on thrice a week but my problem is that we do it only when hubby feels like.  Ordinarily  I am a very shy person with medium sex drive but I started trying to initiate sex when hubby complained that I don't normally  ask.  The problem is that the  time I bring myself to ask it ends up not happening because it's either he doesn't even know I am touching him or he acknowledges in his sleeping mode by just holding me tight.  Most times,  I am always  heartbroken cos I suffer from insomnia and sex seems to be helping to overcome the problem. I really need advise on how to make him considerate.  I have talked to him over and over again.  All I get is serious  begging that might last for hrs that he didn't even know I was touching him.  Pls don't see me as a sex maniac because the simple truth is that  I am not but there are some period that I just  feel a little horny say once in a month.  Oh I forgot to say I almost have never denied him anytime he ask even when I am very tired.  He has a way of getting his way.  For those that think he probably  is angry about something.  I am almost sure he isn't just doesn't care that I have been complaining since it's not like we don't do it all.