Mamalettes I need advice on how to tackle this issue with maturity. Please no insults!! I just got a job through my hubby's colleague who also works part time in my new office. We work together and he has really been nice to me. I have a 3 months old baby, and this guy allows me close early, gives me off days and just covers up lapses. So of recent I noticed he'll touch my waist briefly when going up the stairs, touch my lap lightly when talking and even rubs it when laughing. He called over the weekend and was like I really love to hear your voice. He tells me virtually everything I don't even need to know. He always wants me to join him for a ride back home and says how much he loves my company. I'm beginning to sense he's feelings are growing towards me tho he's married. He hasn't said anything But I think I know Where this is gonna lead to. Please how do I tackle this ish without upsetting him so I don't loose those benefits