Hello house, please I need your help on this. I married a man who was my friend. I was innocent and s.x was never that great but my husband and I just assumed I didn't have a big s.x drive. As I got older I found myself wanting good s.x. I tried with him many times, teaching and showing him what to do. Occasionally s.x was good for me but not often. I don't have the attraction for my husband I wish I did. Sexually he cannot satisfy me even when he tries. I am just not turned on by him. I still fulfill his needs but mine are not being met. My questions, he meets all my other needs, I enjoy being with him, I am just not s.xually attracted to him. Anyone else feel this way? Can you change this? Can I make myself feel that s.xual attraction towards him? He is sexually attracted to me and is happy with our s.x life but I am not.