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Hi Mamalette, my story goes does. Back to year 2005 during my ND days I had a friend I do assist in school then. Fast forward towards rounding up our ND programme, I met a guy through another friend of mine in the same school but the guy is a finalist. The lady told me the guy said he liked me and he will want my friend and I to pay him a visit in his house. I concur with that my friend to go together with that other friend of mine. On getting there, I met with the guy and he introduced that my other friend to him. Later, the guy said to me can he talk to my friend and I said no problem. After the visit, the guy took us in his car and dropped us in my own house. On getting home I didn’t ask my friend what the guy discussed with her likewise did I asked d guy also. Later, I found out my friend is going out with that guy and she stop communicating with me. I get upset with her bcos she didn’t carry me along at least am d one that let both of dem to cross path. NB: I’ve already told her I don't have any flare for the guy wen we are abt to go to his house bcos i have my own boyfrd den and she too has. Ever since den we stop talking to each other. Fast forward to 1999 when I went back for my HND. I had a little problem den but that my frd help me in sorting it out bcos before den she has been looking for a way of letting us coming bck again. I accepted her frienship cos no one to turn to den. NB: Yet she’s still dating the guy and I’m still with my guy too. But wen ever i went to pay her visit or she comes around and my guy call during that time she will insist of talking to my guy but I always permit her talking to him and have never for once said i want to talk to her boyfrd. I even deleted the guy fone number on my fone. Fast forward to 2011 during my service year my boyfrd broke up with me with some filmsy excuses i accepted the fact that we are not meant for each other ni but she is it with her boyfrd. After her NYSC things were still going fine. She gets a job after some months sooner or later her boyfriend too got broke with her. Ever since den we where both looking for partner till 2014 when she met with a guy within some months they got engage and did their wedding. (NB: I have a boyfrd too but not dat serious with each other). I was the one that best her and I did everything I could do to support her with open mind. After the wedding programme i was suppose to follow them bck to my destination cos where we had the wedding is inter-state but her hubby told me I should come down from the car that the car cannot contain us. That i should join any available buses/cars. I feel so terribly dat day. Infact, i cried throughout my journey and thinking of so many things. That how could he treat me dat way even my frd cannot stand in for me. After her marriage she cut off the communication line between us till she gave birth that she called me that she has put to bed about a week ago even the naming ceremony has been done. I feel very hurt and I promise myself not to have anything do with her again. Ever since den till dis very precious moment we’ve stop talking or even liking our pictures on FB. House, have I done anything wrong? Because most people knows us to be best of friend and they are trying to find out what has been the matter btw us but i kept mute.
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