Mamalette Support Team Staff asked 2 months ago
Pls post my story anonymous, and lemme knw immediately its posted, it all started when I met I husband. I have a child of about 5 years old before meeting him. He is aware of my status as a single mother. Though he stays in the UK, but he does a menial job that which brought nothing to his table after paying bills. I have been travelling to the UK and that's how we met . after a short while, we had our intro ceremony and based on this I relocated to the UK with a visiting Visa . we were staying together while I got a palliative care job there continuation... I av been d one taking care of both of us, paying d bills. and just two months later I took in, despite d stress I kept on working for both of us, I sold all my gold for us d to keep us going. times without number my mom wiuld send money from Nigeria. Five months after I came back to Nigeria due to d fact dat I can't stay six months with a visiting Visa. i kept on believing till I gave birth to our baby. Myself and the baby had to stay @ his younger sister's place Couple with every form of in laws pressures, Myself and d baby made our way back in the UK while the girl was 7. months and we spent three days without my husband saying Hi or touching me. I came back to Nigeria still believing he Is my husband. without hesitation, I keep sending all my income due to the fact that I i love him and all of a sudden I lost my job and had to gou to the mom's house This lasted for almost a year after which i got another job in the eastern part of Nigeria. every penny I made at this point was dedicated to him which lasted for good three years . on a fateful day I got a call from a woman claiming to be my husband's wife. To my greatest surprise she sent series of picture she took with my husband in London Couple with the fact that she has been my Facebook friend for good three years without my knowledge. She told me all sort of convincing stories about myself and my mother in Law which I found out to be true. This made me mad with my mother in Law and she had to send myself and the baby Packing. in actual fact, I was o partly insane due to the shock . sake,if not for God's grace , I would have been dead? My question is, i heard from a reliable source that he is no more with the lady in question, and my thinking is should I go back into the relationship or move on with my life? Though he never begged to come back , but I'm just thinking my kids needs a father. please advice?
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